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Expert Q&A
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| By Harriet S. Worobey, M.A. Early Childhood Educator Director, the Nutritional Sciences Preschool | ||
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Is it imperative that 3-year-olds attend preschool?
It is definitely NOT imperative that 3-year-olds attend preschool. It can definitely be a plus, but only if it is a positive experience. Most preschools (as opposed to daycares) have 2 1/2 hour sessions two times per week. This should be an enriching experience in addition to what you give her at home. Most preschools have an orientation method that eases children into the classroom (visitation with parents before the start of school, letting parents stay for the first session or part of the first one, shortened hours the first week, etc.). All of these should help in your child's adjustment. Your attitude towards her going to school will be a factor in her adjustment. If you think it is an exciting and positive experience for her that will help her feel the same. I get the feeling from your letter that you are not so sure that early preschool, or at least the one you will be sending her to, would be good for either of you. If this is the case, you should not feel bad about it. Do try to make sure that she interacts with other children her own age on a regular basisùwith play dates, story hour at the library, dance class or other activities. Many children start school at 4 or 5 and do quite well.
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