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Words That Hurt

Dealing With Teasers and Bullies

By Tamara Reyes-Muralles

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  • Depending on your child's age, meet with your child's school principal and teacher, and discuss how the school handles teasing. Let them knowthey should notify you if it happens to your child.
  • Practice what you might say to your child in a number of situations. For example, what will you say to your child if she tells you she was pushed and called an ugly name?
  • Talk to other parents of children with the same special needs as your child and who have experience with teasing.
  • Read books about teasing, such as For the Love of Jody (Capture Technical Writing Svc., 2002). Look for them at your local library or Amazon.com.
  • Contact organizations that have materials on teasing andcan provide support.
  • If your child does get teased, ensure she understands that there's nothing wrong with her and discuss why kids tease.
  • Ask your child how she wants to approach teasing. Work out a plan with your child to decide when Mom or Dad and/or the school officials should be involved.
  • Seek counseling for your child or yourself. Don't feel embarrassed if you need to ask for help.
  • Allow yourself to cry. Crying is a good way of releasing negative energy.

    • Teasing can be very painful to the child and the parents. There are many solutions, and each family will handle teasing inits own unique way. The most important things to keep in mind are that you'll realize what solutions are best for you and your child and that your parenting instincts will guide you.

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