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Caught in the Act
When Kids Interrupt a
Romantic Moment
Romantic Moment
By Gina Roberts-Grey, LCSW
"My wife and I do not show each other any affection in front of our children," says Mike Hall of Carpentersville, Ill. "We grew tired of always hearing 'ewww,' 'sick' and 'kissing is disgusting,'" he says. "Now no one has to be uncomfortable." While most would agree that overtly affectionate displays create an air of discomfort for everyone, simple and genuine demonstrations of affection set healthy and loving examples.
Understanding what prompts a child to say "ick," "ewww" or "gross" can help ease everyone's stress and eliminate the need for you to covertly give your spouse a kiss goodbye. "In many instances, children become jealous when they realize their parents have a strong bond or connection," says Gibbs. "They worry this threatens their position in their parent's heart."
Incorporating a group hug before or after you kiss your spouse shows your children that you are both a couple and a family. "Children pattern their relationship ideal after the models in their own homes over those seen on television or in public," says Timothy Daley, a retired professor of sociology and member of the American Sociological Association from Phoenix, Ariz. "Eliminating all patterns and examples can have greater emotional impact than accidentally interrupting a parent's romantic interlude."